Notice the urge
Name what you are feeling or thinking of spending. An urge is information—not a failure.
A supportive tool for spending urges
Could you regret it tomorrow? Whether it is gambling, shopping, alcohol, or another urge, SpendPause helps you slow down and choose a next step without shame.
An early prototype—not a bank block, live crisis service, or substitute for professional care.
A small project with a social mission, currently at the prototype stage.
Meet Spendie
YOUR PAUSE GUIDEIllustrative conversation—not a live AI reply
A calm place to talk it through
Share what is on your mind or choose a prompt. Spendie will help you slow down, look at the urge without judgment, and consider one next step.
This prototype runs in this page only. Messages are not sent or saved. It is not monitored and cannot provide emergency help.
If you or someone else may be in immediate danger, contact your local emergency services now. No one is monitoring this demo.
A small moment can make room for a choice
The first version is designed to be gentle and practical. You stay in charge of what you record and what happens next.
Name what you are feeling or thinking of spending. An urge is information—not a failure.
Set a short break that works for you. Optional reminders can bring you back when you asked.
If you skipped the purchase, mark it confirmed and see your personal total grow honestly.
A clearer picture, one entry at a time
Add spending by hand, look back over recent days, and see a simple what-if forecast for the spending you choose to pause.
This prototype keeps entries in this page session only. Refreshing clears them; nothing is sent to SpendPause.
The entries below are illustrative demo data, not your transactions.
Based on the optional spending you chose to record in the last 7 days, here is what the same pace could add up to.
Values use the same currency you enter; this demo does not convert currencies.
An illustrative what-if, not a prediction or promise of savings. It assumes the same spending pace and does not account for income, bills, changing needs, interest or unexpected costs. No bank data is used.
Inspired by lived experience
Over the years, the founder spent more than $500,000 USD on gambling and other purchases they later regretted. SpendPause is shaped by that lived experience and aims to offer practical, non-judgmental support: a moment to pause, a clearer view of spending, and space to seek help. This prototype does not connect to banks or block transactions.
Independent support
These independent services can offer help and information. Choose a service for your country; SpendPause does not provide or monitor crisis support.
Clear answers
SpendPause is still an idea we are shaping. Here is what this first concept does—and does not—promise.
No. This concept has no bank or card connection, so it cannot block transactions. It is a pause-and-reflect tool, not a replacement for bank controls, self-exclusion tools, or professional support.
Find gambling support and self-exclusion resourcesNo. The early version uses information you choose to enter and does not ask for bank credentials.
Only after you confirm that you skipped a purchase. It is your own estimate—not a verified account balance.
Help shape the next step
We are exploring the idea with people who understand impulsive spending. If you would like to hear about a future pilot, you can try the form.